Would you speak now, or forever hold your peace?
Here is the situation. Come July, my brother and soon his soon to be wife are supposed to be getting married. I should mention that they do have a 1 year old child together and both have children with other people. Now, it's not that my brother shouldn't marry this girl, it is that he shouldn't marry any girl. Aside from the constant facebook fights and drama, he has a messed up vision of what love is, and I have seen a few of his relationships go down this same path that did not end well. His fiancee is visibly depressed, and it seems like they are in love when it is convenient for him.
I cannot tell somebody who they should or shouldn't love, because I know the heart wants what it wants. My question is, if you (and your entire family) thinks a marriage should not happen - do you voice your concern or let them make their own mistakes? If so, how do you do it to somebody who is easily offended, doesn't listen to reason and will hold a grudge?