Do you need to vent about your family?
This is not a "Please help me solve this problem" question. This is a "I know there are things that I could do or say to make this better but I've tried and it hasn't work and it probably won't and I just need to vent somewhere that my family won't see this" question.
Okay, I feel better now.
I love my family. I'm not as close to my sister as I once was and I live in a different state than she does. And we do things differently, value things differently and believe differently about many things. And I'm glad we can get together for a while and I love playing with my nephews and joking with my brother-in-law and hanging out with my parents (who arrive later this afternoon) but why, oh why can't she accept my offers to help around the house and cook a Christmas Eve dinner that's not frozen lasagna and buy apples like Dad I and enjoy for lunch and tell us what she has planned for various days and, just, AAAAAAAAhhhhh!!!!
Anyone else need to vent?